identity crisis

now as i have mentioned before, tam and i like to do stuff to kai and then point and laugh at him...ie, dressing him up, doing crazy stuff to his hair, etc..this should explain the ponytail. this is one of tam's favorite things to do...put his hair in a ponytail and call him Steven Seagal. Now I, on the other hand, think this is a sign that his hair is entirely too long. but i dare mention the words "haircut" and I get the death stare from Tam. so no hair cut in the near future....